Honey, I would join your email list if you promised to talk to me like I'm your husband. If you spoke to me like spam, I wouldn't like it. If you could promise me that, I will give you my email via that list.
That was a big house that Michael Jackson lived in. He had lots of guests, but he also had a lot of personal space with heavily locked doors. Michael chose his public appearances carefully. One can only be lonely in a crowd, and he had his own personal crowd to be lonely in. If I had all that space, I would spend most of my time in one room, filled mostly with musical instruments and a carpet for a bed. I like to sleep on the floor. My room would definitely have climate control. The kitchen would be large and fully stocked, and I would personally supervise it. Kitchen activity is very time consuming, so most family time would be in the kitchen. I would probably have a mini office there. I despise commute and labor, so housekeeping and yard would be fully staffed, and groceries would be delivered. Ha ha, dream on. I'm so poor, I can't even afford to be reclusive.