I recently learned from you Honey, that young musicians will take any gig not because they have to, but because they don't know what else to do. You don't need to do many of the shows you recently accepted (where you don't headline, for example) but you do it anyway for whatever reason. To an old musician, some gigs are not worth the effort. But most of them don't know what else to do, either. In my case, I don't even want to travel anymore. So Allah helped me set up a situation where the show comes to me, and for that I am grateful. It helps me live a little longer without exerting myself, and keep my love for music.
Grace, you should listen to some Primus. Have Dekar check it out as well. My favorite Primus album is "Frizzle Fry".