Honey, let's talk about musical growth. Have you added more songs to your set list yet? From what I see on YouTube, you have had the same list since January. Then I look at the Pilgrimage Music & Cultural Festival 2024 lineup:
Dave Matthews Band
NEEDTOBREATHE
Better Than Ezra
COIN
The Band of Heathens
Sierra Hull
Lukas Nelson
Charlie Worsham
Celisse Hozier
The Brevet
Noah Kahan
The Cadillac Three
Chance Peña
Illiterate Light
The Brook & The Bluff
Lamont Landers
People on the Porch
Willi Carlisle
HIPPIES AND COWBOYS
Allison Russell
Stephen Sanchez
Myles Smith
Do you make better music than them? Or did you just want to play alongside them? Are you a musician because you want to be social? It's just a gig? It's not a competition? What about the music?
You're only 18, so you should be growing musically. Sure some acts play the same song(s) over and over again, but those people are old and those songs are all they have to live on. The people you really should ask about your music is your band. Ask them this question: "Am I boring you with my music?" Of course, nobody is going to tell the boss lady that her music has become dull, because it hasn't. There's just not enough of it. Playing the same few songs over and over again is like being broke and having to eat the same meal over and over again. You're not broke! You're not even musically broke. You're only 18!
Another thing is that the "Hodge Podge" isn't necessarily going to contribute original music for "Grace Bowers and the Hodge Podge", because the vision belongs to "Grace Bowers". The burden of creativity is yours, because it's your band. Write at least 30 complete songs with lyrics immediately! And they better be great.